The First 20 Hours - How to Learn Anything: Josh Kaufman

4:01 PM Posted by Unknown

Forget the "10,000 hour rule"

what if it’s possible to learn any new skill in 20 hours or less?

In The First 20 Hours video, Josh Kaufman offers a systematic approach to rapid skill acquisition: how to learn any new skill as quickly as possible. His method shows you how to deconstruct complex skills, maximize productive practice, and remove common learning barriers. By completing just 20 hours of focused, deliberate practice you'll go from knowing absolutely nothing to performing noticeably well.



1. What do you want to learn?
Just to reinforce the purpose of this post, that you can acquire and master skill quickly, I'll add what Tim Ferriss has said too below.


2. What do you want to start to learn today?

How to master any skill by deconstructing it - Tim Ferriss

2:08 AM Posted by Unknown

Ever wish you could learn a new skill quickly?

Let's say Tim wants to learn a martial art. He would first deconstruct the art down into the minimum learnable units, the building blocks that make up the overall discipline he wishes to learn. Next he will utilize the 80/20 rule to select which blocks make up the 20% of subject matter that will take him 80% of the way to competency. He must then sequence in which order to learn those blocks and finally setup stakes to create consequences, make sure he follows the program, and tests his growing facility. Perhaps in this case it would be entering a martial arts tournament.

 Tim Ferriss points out that it is important to track your data so you can figure out points of failure and measure your progress. This broad overview of skill acquisition can apply to nearly any subject.
 
 4 Ways To Master A New Skill
 Deconstruction - work backward and identify the specific ingredients that are required to succeed.

Selection - hone this down to the difference makers – the critical 20%.

Sequencing - a series of two week tests to determine how to order the various 20% skills in the right order. This gives you several different data sets that you can compare.

Stakes - This is what keeps you motivated. In a career context,the stakes are built in. If you don’t stay ahead, your career can flatline. However, if you need motivation, the author suggests using sites like StickK – where you make your commitments public and incur financial consequences if you fail to meet them.

 Sources: LifeHacker | A2S

ROI of Effective Dwarfs The ROI of Creative

9:49 AM Posted by Unknown

I've learned the "ROI of effective" dwarfs the "ROI of creative".


Creativity: I've been struggling with this for a long time in my entrepreneurial life. Almost always i try to be creative(or you could say ultra-creative) But in the process i sabotage myself from moving forward and executing things ASAP because i could not quench my creative thirst on projects.

 Effective: knowing what i know now "creativity is over rated" so main focus (80%) will be devoted to effectiveness. I've learned the "ROI of effective" dwarfs the "ROI of creative".

 I chose the latter. I rest my case. Yours Truly.


PS. At FlyingCocoon | Social Media Agency We chose ‘effective Work’ over ‘creative work’.
 Effective - When the work explains what we do.
 Creative - When we have to explain the work. 

 P.P.S Action to be effective must be directed to clearly conceived ends. ~Jawaharlal Nehru

From Cocoon to Butterfly to Fly High.

10:41 PM Posted by Unknown

When you find yourself cocooned in isolation and despair and cannot find your way out of the darkness, remember that this is similar to the place where caterpillars go to grow their wings.

New Millionaires. Are you gonna be one of them?

12:01 AM Posted by Unknown

"WAKE UP!" Entrepreneurs
 "Ten million new millionaires will be created by 2016, and you can become one of them--especially if you are in direct selling, technology, or home-based business" - Paul Zane Pilzer, Best Selling author, Economist, and Professor

Here’s an infographic which highlights nine tech entrepreneurs who made it big pretty early.

If you have infograph for Direct-Selling and HomeBased Business please share with me via amx[at]email[dot]com

The Inches We Need Are Everywhere Around Us.

9:01 PM Posted by Unknown

Life is a game of inches. So is football. In either game the margin of error is small. One half a step too late or too early and you don't quite make it. In this movie Any Given Sunday, Al Pacino is a football coach who delivers a motivating speech to his falling-apart team. Life is like a football game – or maybe football is like life. Either way, the words here are moving and powerful. 

But the inches we need are everywhere around us. In every minute of our lives. We have to go for every inch. Because we know that when we add up those inches, that will make the difference between winning and losing. And I know that if I'm gonna have any life anymore, it's because I'm still willing to go for that inch. And that's what living is. The six inches in front of your face. Now what are you gonna do?"

Walk away from REAL.

12:37 AM Posted by Unknown


Be real, by walking away from what other think REAL. To know more what i mean look at what found from Seth Godin's Blog. He puts it in a better perspective. 
As in, "that's not a real football team, they don't play in Division 1" or "That stock isn't traded on a real exchange" or "Your degree isn't from a real school."
Real contains all sorts of normative assumptions and implicit criticisms for those that don't qualify. Real is just one way to reject the weird.
My problem with the search for the badge of real is that it trades your goals and your happiness for someone else's.

Let Me Tell You Something You Already Know

10:56 PM Posted by Unknown

The Overlap Of Worry And Imagination.

3:40 AM Posted by Unknown


My work requires me to be creative and during this process of creativity, keep catching myself red handed either using my imagination or worrying. At a times the dividing line seem too blurry to me, how do you know whether you are imaging or worrying? 
I asked this to Allen in our recent conversation; he said it profoundly: worrying lives you with worrying. But imagination lives you with joy. 
And YOU? How do you draw the line that you are whether imagining or worrying at any given moment? Especially when you have performance anxiety causing big project in front of you. Of course i’ve faith in God, But i should also so work out my faith na? What do you think? I want to know your thoughts on this.

If God doesn’t change the situation, He changes us for the situation.

6:54 AM Posted by Unknown


 We have fire in our hands, dreams in our hearts, and no concept of limitation in our heads. And so we live.
We don’t have to wait to until we get burned. We can confess our limitations and the limitations of the things we have, the money we’ve earned, the stuff we’ve acquired. We can be honest and admit that a car will not make us invincible in bad weather, that a security system will not prevent a break-in, that a good investment strategy can’t guarantee retiring as a millionaire. All these things are good, and they increase the probability of your desired outcomes. But they make no absolute promises. The simple act of acknowledging that can free you from a reliance on the wrong thingsTo confess our limits, to surrender our dreams and embrace the ordinary, to hold power loosely and even turn down the chance to gain more—these are unlikely, uncommon spiritual disciplines that can help us remain God-dependent even in the midst of plenty. ~Glenn Packiam

Of late God has been dealing with me intimately and giving me lessons that I wouldn’t learn otherwise. He was showing me, my own limitations to myself. (Though at times I tend to believe in “All is possible”, “Unlimited Potential” Bla bla bla)  Its illusion. Now I want to tell my blog readers few things..
  1.  The things I was passing through in life revealed things about-me to me which is already known to GOD.  The more I know my limitations; my dependency on Him grew. Often times the areas I think I’m good at got tested through circumstances and I realize i might be good at it but not that good. And that is why I need God. I found the trial of my faith as precious.
  2. If  you think you won’t go through what other people go through. It might even make you arrogant. But when a time comes and stuffs hit you flat on your face, and bring you down on your knees. Now I understand God made me limited so that I couldn’t praise myself. Sometimes when I pray I say “God, Why did I go thought that? How come this part of my life doesn’t line up with that part of my life? Why didn’t you fix this?” The lesson for me is when I’m limited I lean on Him. When I am limited i depend on him. Because when I  come out of this season  He doesn’t have to be worried about me being arrogant/prideful because i know that if it has not been for the Lord I wouldn’t make it. That is why I wouldn’t look down on anybody.
  3. We all have to learn about dealing to delayed gratification. Slowly but surely God blesses us in His time.




Daniel Pink - Motivation 3.0

10:44 AM Posted by Unknown

What is it that motivate us? More money? The answer is NO.Daniel Pink examines the puzzle of motivation, starting with a fact that social scientists know but most managers don't.


If you don't have time here is the short animated version. See the new model–of motivation

Sachin’s 100th Century.

10:46 PM Posted by Unknown


If you don’t have few minuites, please don’t feel obligated to read this long post 

Sachin’s  100th Century.

Me and my dear-friend (& Co-founder at FlyingCocoon) Joshua Chris were having coffee at regular venue (Beyond Coffee) We get a coffee time pretty much most of the weekdays when he isn’t in Bangalore. He loves Cricket. So i knew today’s discussion point was somewhat important and relevant to what we’ve been going through as partners for quite sometime. He shared an article with me that was written few days back on yourstory.in about Sachin’s 100th century miss and Nation’s anticipation. (Josh usually says, we don’t always get what we want. We get only what God gives directly proportional to what we are capable of) i’ll probably write about this another day. In general I love Joshua’s insight on things, i don’t remember a single day i wasn’t inspired by him over three years+ of our friendship. (though i’ve many good friends I can count on for advice) He’s ONE person i know who connects with me in different level, may be its because He understands technology, business and has balanced spiritual life too. I learn a lot from him.(I hope he’ll learn few things from me too)
Coming back to the article i mentioned he shared with me, the author talks about three main focus points



1. You never know what’s going to happen next minute – Sachin has reached 100′s so easily till last year and since last 8 months it’s been such a struggle repeating the same thing. There are phases in your startup journey when all is going great and then the landslide starts but that doesn’t mean the commitment is low or you are doing something wrong. It’s just that you need to continue and stay put and pass the phase. I am sure Sachin will get his 100th century soon if not today some other day, and I think that’s the level of confidence and self belief that needs to be there.
 2. New Day is always a new day – In last so many occasions we have seen Sachin play well and cross 50 but when he comes the next day the landmark seems to elude him. In a startup a new day is a new day. You got to start afresh, forget the good and bad of the last day and focus on what’s on hand.
 3. Focus – We have seen so many startups starting wonderfully well but losing focus mid way especially when the BIG THING is nearing. Much like Sachin going just 6 runs away from what could have been a great great innings, slight loss of focus can lead to a sudden downfall in the fortunes of a startup.


For a young entrepreneur like me who is trying to make it work with unrealized ambition and probably with lots of bills to pay.  Josh had a bit of his own commentary on top of the article I shared above.  He said Just like sachin No matter how successful we become, life always shows up with a surprise and mystery.  Its in a times like this our faith will be tested. Emmy when you find you self in this spot remember your faith is on trial, but you've got a good lawyer. A person who pleads your case in heaven.  He continued talking but I stopped listening and went in to my own thoughts. Suddenly all my previous small and big achievements & failures started to mean nothing in the face of whats ahead of me and whats possible, its just like Sachin’s failure at his 100th century. Previously I’ve tried and tried more to get things back to the perfect track but i found it an uphill to get my way, the way I want it.

“I wanted the gold, and I sought it;
I scrabbled and mucked like a slave.
Was it famine or scurvy—I fought it;
I hurled my youth into a grave…”
“Yet it isn’t the gold that I’m wanting
So much as just finding the gold.” -Robert Service,

Before my graduation i had to work for internship for three months. At the office i worked in people loved me, i was the youngest and nerdy and geekiest chap around so they wanted me to say longer (i too wanted to stay because I was learning a lot in that environment) And i ended up working there for a year. Last week I was immersed in deep five years old nostalgia while i stumbled at the recommendation letter i received from the CEO when i resigned. In those days I had all the energy, regularly over-night i used to crush in the office on my desk. I ate on computers, breath computers dust, slept on keyboard. I massaged(scratched) myself with mouse.  While working in that office, though i enjoyed every moment of it I knew  from my college days that my brains are wired differently( to work for myself). That is why back in good old days 2004-5 I  launched a website and optimized it to earn from Adsense Ads, While my classmates wanted to work for so and so multi-national companies. I knew that i knew i’m never gonna work for anyone. (Though in college days i used to say i wanna work ONLY for Google, later i outgrow that and wanted to build company and sell it to google. I still secretly lust on that front.)  Between then and now sooooo many things happen, i saw myself evolved through tough situations. So FlyingCocoon is one of those things that a happened in between then and now (started early 2008 and much didn’t happen in between Josh left to Bangalore and i was busy trying out there things). I’m lucky! I have many people i love and value like Josh beside me. For many entrepreneurs finding a co-founder has been likened to getting married and like a marriage it can be the best or the worst thing to happen to you. Now am runing a (Lean)scrappy startup I’m pushing myself, despite all the limitations, swearing i have to make this work, no matter what. I don’t know how many people understand the intensity but Running a startup without any funding is definitely a hard life. Even with funding, it is a lot of work. I remember Conan O'Brien's quoted what  Nietzsche famously said ‘Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.’ But what he failed to stress is that IT ALMOST KILLS YOU.  You know, The stresses of running a poorly performing company or the frustrations of not closing enough deal almost kills you.  I was absorbed so much, I stopped caring about myself and things around me much. Few trusted friends came and told me Emmy pls take care of yourself  you are underweight & you look like a shit. I still didn’t care much. Sometimes dreams make us insane. And those who are around us who don’t know what’s going on inside of us looks at as commenselseless-lunatic. That part has never bothered me ever, because to some degree i’m iconoclast. What the society think doesn’t bother me zilch while my dream is at stake.

I sipped my coffee, Josh also sipped his coffee and continued talking i didn’t concentrate on what all he said new he moved on to the second point what the guy wrote about sachin’s NEW DAY, its is pretty much similar to what paul says  But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead,  I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me. Emmy In God’s kingdom Faith is your currency, Have faith in a new day. Its By faith gentile became a Jew. I hope you remember Abraham’s story how he birthed a new nation. Because he believed God it was counted unto him as righteousness. He was not right but he believed God is so good. And guess what? God said if you believe me like that I'll go ahead and i'll credit your account. And it was counted as righteous. Its like God saying I know you are not perfect, but i'll take your faith as a currency. I'll bless you. give you land and everything.

I know his FAITH also told him he'll give him a son, funnily the case got on hold till his wife passed child bearing age, now she was barren on top of that his body aged too. When it was completely impossible in human terms, God gave them a son.
Emmy as long as you can see you way clear God will do absolutely nothing. Its when absolutely there is no way for you to get it, when all of you plans & plots are failed and the budget is blown, the checks are over drawn. When you can see no way how you can make it. No way to run your dream startup, no way to hire the kind of talent you want. Its then God moves on your behalf and say I'm gonna bless you. Like Abraham. When you reach to this stage you know whom to be thankful for. Credits only goes to God not to anyone. Not even for yourself. Because you couldn't do it.
While we just have to trust God, often times we try to trace him. Trust is form of worship. If you don’t want to worship him question your purpose why here on earth you are here for.
Am still listening while looking at the one of the paintings on the wall at BeyondCoffee. I looked at my green tea cup I’ve realized i finished it without realizing it. Both of us have finished our drinks the only thing left on the table is French fries.
Josh took hand full of French fries and continued about the article he was talking about. He said the third point deals with really crucial issue. (Especially for us) I believe there is dime a dozen opportunities now than any previous generations ever lived on this planet had. For the little guys to create wealth and be who they want to be barriers to entry have been mostly removed especially for Tech companies; the playing field has been quite levelled same way for a guy in Hyderabad and for the guy in Silicon valley. This is something "very liberating". As you are yet to be discovered,  you haven't gotten your recognition. But at the same time, you don't have expectations. You just have to Focus, and take Action while the opportunities are still here. He looked me in the eye and said people like you suffer because they think they can be everything(not one thing) they want to be and when reality bitch slaps them. They’ll go out on full spree to prove a point.
Truly speaking I’ve done all of that, trying to prove a point and all, knowing what i know now, "odds are highly stacked against start-ups” i’v nothing i want to prove. I just let God, what He lets me to do. I’ve reconciled with the fact that i can’t fight with that, even if i fight that. That is a losing battle already from the beginning.

As I mentioned earlier Me and Josh understand technology & business (local business) that is what clicked between us and helped us to build this incredible friendship over the years. We’ve been advising our friends on how to use the social web to generate leads for their small business in a very casual way for the last two year (very casually not for revenue). And For the past few months I’ve been working on SocialCRM called “OppTube” and i never knew FlyingCocoon which we started in 2008 will become serious and we’ll help more business to adopt social Media to expand their reach.
The plan is very simple for now. We do Social Media Consultation for local business for free or for extremely nominal cost. Help them with execution. We nurture a long term working relationship with them. At later stage when my SocialCRM gets ready for beta testing they’ll be signed up. After their initial trial & feedback period It will be priced rightly based on the value it provide. I’ll talk about on that development on another post
As conclusion he said: It’s really scary to forsake everything and focus on one thing. It’s ok, accept the fear: It is natural to be frightened by unknown. Naturally you want to diversify. You might being a situation making less money and working more because  company you are working in decides suddenly freeze salaries and increase working hours This has happened for several friends in Indian IT companies.  But still focus is the only way-in only way-out
In a serious voice he asked me:  Em what’s the worst it could happen to you? Quickly i said I’ll be completely bankrupt and start sleeping in my car till I bounce back. He said think for a second Are you really afraid of that. I mean really? After thinking for a second I replied: Actually not that much. If you look at any successful Startup, many encountered situations where most would throw in the towel, but they didn’t, they pushed through and achieved their dreams.







PS.
I know my writing style is as terrible as it gets. Something tells me with practice i can write better in the future. This is written as a practice. When i become a better writer i’ll look back and laugh at this post the awful grammar and punctuation..
P.S.S  On the flip side i feel really happy, coz this is a testament of overcoming my two fears, Fear of long post and showing off my insecurities as man. Sometimes opening up ourselves to vulnerability helps us to reclaim our humanness and remind us we are not God.



The Old Violin

12:00 PM Posted by Unknown

T'was battered and scarred and the auctioneer thought it scarcely worth his while,
To waste such time on the old violin, but he held it up with a smile.
"What am I bid, good people," he cried "who'll start the bidding for me?
A dollar? A dollar. Who'll make it two? Two dollars who'll make it three?
Three dollars once, three dollars twice going for three," but no!

From the room, far back, a gray-bearded man came forward and picked up the bow.
Then wiping the dust from the old violin, and tightening up the strings,
he played a melody, pure and sweet, as sweet as the angel sings.

The music ceased, and the auctioneer with a voice that was quiet and low said,
"What now am I bid for this old violin?" as he held it up with the bow.
"One thousand? One thousand, do I hear two? Two thousand. Who'll make it three?
Three thousand once, three thousand twice, going and gone!" said he.

The audience cheered, but some of them cried, "We just don't understand.

What changed it's worth?" Swift came the reply, "The touch of the masters hand."

And many a man, with life out of tune, all battered with bourbon and gin,
Is auctioned cheap, to a thoughtless crowd, much like that old violin.
A mess of pottage, a glass of wine, a game, and he travels on.
He's going once, he's going twice, he's going and almost gone.
But the Master comes and the foolish crowd never can quite understand,
The worth of a soul and the change that is wrought, by the Touch of the Masters Hand.
~Myra 'Brooks' Welch

I'm gonna share this with my Life Group, yey.

BREAKTHROUGH

10:53 PM Posted by Unknown


“Sometimes a breakdown can be the beginning of a kind of breakthrough, a way of living in advance through a trauma that prepares you for a future of radical transformation.”Cherrie Moraga 



A Breakthrough is a moment in time when the impossible becomes possible. When something happens that shapes you, that moves you. Maybe you meet someone that inspires you. Maybe it’s a tool or a strategy that you learn. Maybe you finally get so fed up you won’t settle for the life that you have any more. It's when something inside of you clicks and everything changes. You take massive action and you transform your life.


Recently A friend of mine(Mark) asked me to shoot TV Ad Film for Joyce Mayer's Breakthrough CD Series. Since i needed a breakthrough myself I enjoyed the studio shooting from the bottom of my heart...